One year ago today I went into the hospital. 3 weeks prior to that is when they discovered my dynamic/incompetent cervix at my 20 week ultrasound. I was immediately put on bed rest at home and had to go in for weekly ultrasounds at the hospital with the high risk OB. It was Bob's birthday so he came with me, it was also the first appointment of the day. I got called back and they did the abdominal ultrasound and baby boy Bauer was looking good. The tech then had to do a transvaginal ultrasound and she went silent and called in the doctor. I remember her telling the doctor, "she doesn't have a cervix?!?!" The cervix is what stays closed to keep the baby inside. The doctor then decided to do a manual exam and I was finger tip dilated and 80% effaced, but only 23 weeks pregnant, just on the cusp of viability. The doctor immediately admitted me to the hospital. I was brought upstairs to the ante partum department. I was put on IV fluids, on a monitor for contractions, given indicin (to stop contractions) and also had my first steroid shot. I also was put onto a bed pan and my bed was put into trendelenburg position, where my legs are higher than my head.
Needless to say that was an incredibly scary day. We really didn't know what was going to happen. The doctor didn't really have a long term plan. I was too far into the pregnancy for a cerclage, a stitch that closes the cervix but I was too early to deliver. He really was only taking it one day at a time. I had no end date in sight other than my due date, which was August 5th and today was April 8th. Initially I was sharing a room with another girl but by that afternoon had my own private room. This is a day I will definitely never forget...